fit for pearls

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See, that’s what the app is perfect for.

Sounds perfect Wahhhh, I don’t wanna
prehistoricmancunt
bitter-feminist

yesterday i came across this post on instagram by @/shrimpteeth illustrating a quote from Faking It but Lux Alptraum that is so validating i nearly cried. 

From someone who’s never had an orgasm (or maybe has but it wasn’t “earth shattering” so was it even really one?) this attitude (that ‘all orgasms are elaborate, intense affairs’) is so frustrating and isolating and makes sex feel like pressure to perform something I can’t.

Also can we please stop centering sex around orgasm to the point that when i tell a partner not to worry about trying to make me come, they’ll either think I’m insulting their abilities or challenging them, instead of me just knowing my body (bc maybe no one else can make me come but i haven’t slept with them yet so wait and see!)

prehistoricmancunt
soloveitchik

Not to be dramatic or anything but as a lesbian what saved my life was realizing that attraction is supposed to feel good

semitics

If your attraction to men makes you viscerally uncomfortable, distressed, and feels like a fulfillment of a default obligation rather than something that produces good and exciting feelings, perhaps it isn’t attraction

xxviii-xi-mcmxcviii

This needs to be read by lesbians, bisexual and straight women. Attraction is supposed to be a good thing. Don’t ever force yourself to be with a man you don’t like and doesn’t respect you.

rotifers

I tried to check whether OP was a terf, but their blog is deactivated, so make of this what you will.

hundondestiny

It’s extremely ugly to let everyone know you check to see if lesbians are TERFs. Nothing in this post has any inferences that could b read as related to trans women.

Checking to see if someone is a TERF before reblogging something that reads as gender critical or gender essentialist is one thing, taking “this is a post about lesbians that mentions men” as a cue to question transmisogyny is very much leaning into the idea that lesbians are exclusionary via their lesbianism.

There’s nothing wrong w caution but like… we rlly need to think critically abt frames here.

batslime

like not only are dumbasses not smart enough to at least keep that shit to themselves but op is not deactivated and literally not even cis

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ohbytheangelcanyounot
paskakissa

biggest hetero lie i’ve been told: fighting is a part of a healthy romantic relationship

hobbitkaiju

Disagreements are a part of every healthy relationship. Having bad days when you’re not your best self is a part of every healthy relationship. Fighting, disrespect, and insults? Those are not healthy at all. 

m4dh4ttey266

^^^^^^^^^^^^ the fact that some people don’t get this is staggering.

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